Had no1 at his renal (kidney) clinic today. Not his normal one but one laid on for Young Persons reaching transition age ie: almost ready to move to adult services. It’s strange as we’ve always knows it’s been nearing but I suppose I’ve been in denial. We’ve been surrounded by these amazing consultants and nurses for 17 years, the thought of leave them behind and getting to know a whole host of new people is daunting……
As I think I’ve mentioned before, Sr K was the first member of the renal team who we met on the day he was diagnosed on 12 July 2001. She has always been at the end of a phone if we have ever needed her. She is in the hospital at 8am (often earlier) and has been sat with families – including myself – at 11:30pm and then in again early for another shift.
We met with the consultant he will be under in adult sector and she is lovely. She has “all 7 of the adult cystinosis patients” under her care and us very blunt and open when she says that she does not know what the future holds for them. The modern medication for it has only been around for 15 or so years. The eldest is 28….. only 10 years older than my No1. That struck a bit if a cord. She, Sr K and one of the renal docs we already know, spoke with him alone at length and then invited me in and we all spoke.
It’s like preparing to say goodbye to friends you have known for a long long time. Knowing that time isn’t far away, yet not knowing exactly when.
But, we will be fine. They all will be there to support us all, it won’t happen overnight, and most importantly God is in control, and He has placed wonderful people around us to help us through this time.
Be blessed my friends xxxx